KIDSMATTER – HELPING CHILDREN RESOLVE CONFLICT

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KIDSMATTER – HELPING CHILDREN RESOLVE CONFLICT

Summary:
– friends can have conflicts too
– children need to have relationship repair skills
– conflict is a normal occurrence in life
– children who have the skills to manage conflict are
– happier
– have stronger relationships &
– learn better at school
– many parents let children sort it out themselves – hence why the loudest often works
– other parents jump in & “fix”
– suggests trying this when child disagrees with friends /siblings
1. Ask all sides for their side of the story
2. Have children state their own needs & wants by asking them what thy want
3. Help children listen & understand the needs & wants of the other
4. Help children think of different ways to solve the problem – assist & encourage the children to develop solutions
5. Help develop win-win solutions
6. Put solution into action & review

https://www.kidsmatter.edu.au/families/enewsletter/helping-children-resolve-conflict

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